Kalaman Motsa Sha'awa Masu Ratsa Jikin Mace

Kalaman Motsa Sha'awa Masu Ratsa Jikin Mace

Kalaman Motsa Sha'awa Mace Masu Saurin Tayar Mata Da Sha'awa A Lokacin Kwanciyar Jima'i 

UBANGIJI (SWT) ya shaida mana a cikin littafınsa mai tsarki cewa: mun halicci mata daga gareku domin ku samu nutsuwa daga garesu.Tabbas a fagen koyar da abinda ya zama wajibi saninsa a addini kuma abin ya zamo ilmi ya zama tilas a bayyanashi koda ran wani bai so ba. 

Manzon allah (S.A.W) yace da sahabbansa: idan dayanku yayi nufın tarawa, saduwa da iyalinsa kada yaje musu kamar yadda dabbobi ke zuwa, yafara tura dan aike, shin wane dan aike za'a tura ya Rsulillah? Sahabbai suka tambayeshi wasanni kafın jima'i shine dan aiken da kuma kalaman motsa sha'awa.

Kalaman Motsa Sha'awa Masu Ratsa Jikin Mace

Da farko a  lokacin da maigida yake tare da matarsa a daki anso ya fara da janta da kalaman motsa sha'awa, misali: farin cikina kece wacce idan ina tare dake nake mantawa da duk wani bakin ciki, murmushinki yana sanyaya ruhina, farincikina yana karuwa a sanda nake duban kyakkyawar fuskarki ma'abociyar haiba da annuri, ni masoyin ki nayi dacen samun sarauniyar mata, kinada fasalin jiki mai kayatarwa, surarki ta kasance abarso da debe kewa, bana gajiya da kallon bayanki a lokacin da kike tafiya, kirjinki shine sinadarin idanuna, nafison dubansa fiye dana karfen zinare.

A lokacin da megida yake wannan kalaman motsa sha'awa, zai lura da matarsa tana dubansa idanunta cike da shaukin soyayya, a sanda kakalli cikin idanunta zakaga tana kawar dakai. Wannan kadan kenan daga alamun kamuwar sha'awa na mata, anso kafara da rungumeta a kirjinka domin babu abin da mace tafi kauna irin taji tudun nononta ya kwanta a cikin kirjin namiji. 

A hankali ka tura hannunka a cikin rigarta musamman idan rigar ta bacci ce, a sannu zaka fara shafa tudun nononta kana mulmulawa tare da kissing din bakinta a sannu cikin hankali zaka sunkuyo dakanka zuwa kirjinta kafara tsotsar kan nononta dayan kuma ka ringa wasa dashi kana matseshi a cikin yatsunka, kadinga sanya hannu kana shafo har tudun duwawunta, da tsakanin cinyoyinta. 

Anso megida yasanya azzakarinsa a tsakanin nonuwan matarka ka tallafe nonuwan tareda matse azzakarin a tsakiyarsu kadinga gurzawa kana gogashi, hakan yanada matukar amfani saboda Allah (S.W.T) ya halicci maniyyin mace ne yana fara tsatstsafowa ne a tsakanin kirjinta yataru daga bisani sa ya sakko izuwa mararta, musamman lokacin kalaman motsa sha'awa, a sanda namiji yake wannan zai lura da hankalin uwargida yayi masifar tashi inda zakaga dikkan gabobin jikinta sun kumburo musamman nonuwa da farjinta zasu kumbura su fara fesar da wani irin ruwa. 

Sannu a hankali maigida saiya shigar da hannunsa cikin pant din uwar gida yafara shafa saman farjinta yana dan matsa tudunsa ahankali cikin tafın hannunsa, sannan yana cigaba da yi mata kalaman motsa sha'awa, yana yin hakan tareda sanya yatsunsa biyu a gefan kofar farjinta yadinga kewayashi yanayin wasa da wannan tsokar naman da yayi tudu na saman farjinta yana mulmulashi da yatsansa. Anan uwargida zata fara zillo tana sake turoma jikinta tareda numfarfashi sama- sama. 

A wannan yanayi mata dayawa basa iya jurewa cigaban wasan domin caraf zakaji sunyi sun kama azzakarin megida sunshigar cikin farjinsu, matukar megida zaibi wannan post to wallahi mace ko amaryace wannan zafın na kecewar murfin budurci dadi bazai bari tajishiba sai dai da safe taji zafın amma tayi karya tajishi a cikin dare, musamman lokacin da kake furta kalaman motsa sha'awa. 

Matukar za'adinga bin salon yin wasanni da kalaman motsa sha'awa kafın jima'i zai sanya matan dake gudun mazansu su daina, sannan yana kara dankon so tsakanin ma'aurata sannan kowanne a cikinsu zai samu damar juye abinda yataru na mararsa a lokacin.